"Not at all-- jewelry is supposed to be noticed!" Ishimitsu assured her. "And that goes double for an engagement ring. It has an important job to do in communicating availability."

"That's true," Bunta said. "Wear it with joy, after the announcement."

That's her out, if she isn't comfortable wearing it yet, or simply doesn't want to deal with the swarm of attention and questions it's going to generate now. It's okay to wait: let the ring be the confirmation, not the breaking news alert.